Written by a friend.
“A security analyst was on tonight explaining how this all works.
That because children are children, they don't carry ids. They have smaller facial features. They probably haven't had dental work yet.
Because they are kids, it's really hard to identify their bodies.
She was saying that the way we handle these things, because we've learned how to handle these things, is to bring all the parents to one place. Then we match living children with parents.
And the parents left? They identify the bodies.
Before we retreat back into our strongly held camps and before we proclaim our strongly held beliefs, we need to sit with these parents.
These parents who, holding onto to every ounce of hope, were met with the unthinkable - identifying their 2nd grade baby.
We owe these children so much more. Bearing witness to how this all works is quite simply the least we can do.”